The Ultimate 3 Step Guide to Keeping All Your Goals

You can change your entire life just by learning the right way to set goals. All it takes are these 3 simple steps to set goals you’ll never fail.

The power of goal setting can help you become the person you want to be and create the life you want to lead. All you have to do is learn how to set goals so that you actually achieve them. Whether you are making relationship goals, setting couple goals together, or planning some personal goals, these 3 simple steps can ensure you always accomplish any goal you set your mind to.


“Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears.”

—Gillian Anderson

Learn how to take action, persevere, and face all your fears so that you can accomplish all your goals by implementing these goal setting tips.

1. Make Smaller Goals

The phrase “an inch is a cinch, a yard is hard” works for goals as well.

It is important to make your goals achievable. If your goals are too big they’ll be hard to accomplish. It’s best to set small, achievable stepping stones toward a lofty goal. Rather than setting a goal to lose 50 pounds in a week, set smaller goals to lose 1 or 2 pounds a week.

Each goal should be broken into manageable chunks rather than one giant goal. This makes the goal much more doable. Use a step-by-step planning worksheet to write down your smaller steps and keep track of your progress with those steps. Here are a couple of ways to break down some common goals.

  • Get Out of Debt. Make your get out of debt plan more feasible by beginning with a budget and/or getting a second job.
  • Read More. Many people want to become more well-read. If you struggle reading, consider joining a book club to increase your ability to discuss what you read.
  • Learn More Technical Skills. If your job requires you to learn new computer skills, such as Microsoft Excel, begin by creating spreadsheets for your own budget. If you make the project personal, you’ll learn the software faster.
  • Stay More Informed. If you want to be more politically well-informed, start reading from numerous sources. As you broaden your exposure, you will eventually become more well-rounded and able to discuss politics with co-workers and friends.

Knowing how to make goals into smaller steps is very important when learning how to set goals in the first place. If you don’t set SMART goals then you’ll be setting yourself up for failure instead of success.

2. Write It Down

Once you have decided your goals, write it down. When you write the goals down they become more real. Think of it as a way of setting your intentions. You build a sense of accountability into your goal-setting that can keep you honest about your progress and motivated to keep going. It can also limit your ability to rationalize taking shortcuts or a day off. When learning how to set goals, it is very important to include this in your goal setting worksheet.

Writing your goal setting plans down can also help you to visualize your plan of action and think through all the possibilities. Any goal is going to have its own setbacks. Brainstorm what your setbacks might be and make plans to overcome obstacles before they arise.

3. Plan to Win!

You’ve heard the saying, “Failing to plan is to plan to fail.” Well, when you set goals you have to plan to put your goals into practice. Just as you broke your goal into easily digestible parts, you will need to plan each step of the way.

For example, if your goal is to lose weight, find healthy, low-calorie recipes and plan your meals daily. A good trick is to make your meals ahead of time and portion them out throughout the week. If you create delicious meals and snacks, you will be less likely to cheat. There are many good calorie counters and meal planners online. By keeping a quality food journal, you exponentially increase your success! It is important to do your due diligence and find tools to help you achieve your goals.

Or maybe you hate going to the gym but you do love workout videos. Then plan to use those instead! Whatever you need to do to make keeping your goals easier

Each goal you set is potentially a life-changing endeavor. You can increase your happiness and expand your horizons when you set and realize quality, worthwhile goals. By setting and planning worthwhile goals you can accomplish much more than you ever imagined possible. You can increase your marketability, expand your knowledge, and make yourself a better person, just by setting and keeping your goals.